Oh hi, I am the girl who has the same wedding as you do. Sorry that i have to send you private msg as I just concern disclosing too much publicly.
Speaking of preparation, I have already booked the venue (at eaton hotel); chosen the gowns (the chinese attire as well); confirmed the MUA, on-day photographer and venue decoration vendor(yet no meeting held); bought the wedding bands; invited bridesmaid and groomsmen; downloaded music for banquet use; had a random draft of rundown (which I expect ongoing adjustment over monthssss) and received the albums of the first pre-wedding (had that in taiwan).

Here are the outstanding items:
- second pre-wedding (shooting next wee, should have no concern except body shape and face conture)
- limousine and 28-seat van rental
- shopping in shenzhen (should be done in this mth)
- bridesmaid dresses
- mom's dresses
- bouquet (do you know if there's any of the vendor deliver the bouquet to doorstep?)
- invitation card printing (should have friend's design)
- the favor (have to ask relative to send over from US)
- booking marriage registry (can't be done till 26 nov- big issue)
- game for bride fetching
- DIY??!!! (I have tried out making corsage but fail, just don't know how to attach everything together... the silk flowers are now lying beneath my office desk.... have thought of making the ring bearer but it's imcomplete anyway)
- thinking how to print out the table no card and menu... (not sure if the paper  is too think to get through office colour printer...)
- last but not least....... where to live, ha, can't be resolved and am praying for a retreat in property price
How's your progress?

*Sorry that you have to read these all in English since I am really bad at typing and writing chinese. Just reply in chinese as I can read.